Thursday, December 3, 2020

I still loved you


Poem

I still loved you

I still love you

The sound of your footsteps

With your every smile

The fragrance of your words

By the magic of your eyes

From your charming outlays

From your killer torments

By stopping in your ways

By bending your eyelids

From your unwarranted complaint

From every habit of yours

I still loved you

I still love you

Even if I die

Your love in my heart

Live forever

Adilؔ


 

Tuesday, December 1, 2020

Six Facts for successful Love


1.      He makes Sacrifices for You.

When he truly love with you he sacrificing everything for you.

If you notice him doing more than it is required by making some 

sacrifices for you, then he truly love you.

2.      He Supports You.

Another way to figure out if a guy love you or not is whether he 

supports you or not. It may not necessarily be financial support. It can be words of encouragement on a particular thing you are trying to achieve.

He may take it to himself to admonish you to try your best even when 

you feel like all hope is lost. If he does that, then he truly care for you.

3.      He protects you.

When a guy truly love a girl, he will always protect her. Let’s take 

for instance, when you do something wrong in the public, instead of 

following others to criticize you, he will stand by you. After everything, 

he will secretly tell you that what you did was wrong. It is a sign of true love.

4.   When a guy truly love you, he will not 

force you against your will.

 Fake Love is when your partner forces you to go against your will just 

to satisfy himself. But if he allows you to disagree with him and also do 

your will he loves you.

5.      He Respects You.

   True love works hand in hand with respect. You respect those you truly love. When a guy truly love a girl, he respects her. Be it her privacy       whatever. So if he truly love you, he will respect you and see you as an equal partner.

6.      Your happiness becomes his priority.

When a guy truly love you, your happiness becomes his concern. He avoids doing anything that will make you unhappy.

When you are not happy, he makes you happy. He may even decide to tell you some jokes just to change your sad mood.

In other words, if he truly love you, he will always be the source of your happiness.

Adilؔ



 

Love Never Flops


Poem

Love never flops

We often cognize that

Which we love

We can leave him

But that doesn't happen

Love is eternal truth

The love become halt

Inside our dialogue

Within our caste

But it does not diminish

In case of any grief

Never in need

Never in grief from ignorance

Inside our eyes

Become flowing drips

Sometimes in the form of drops

The love become halt

It does not diminish at all

Love never fails

Adilؔ



 

Saturday, February 22, 2020

Miss Me but Let Me Go


Miss Me but Let Me Go
When I come to the end of the day,
And the sun has set for me.
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room.
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little, but not too long,
And not with your hand bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared…
Miss me, but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take,
And each must go alone.
It’s all part of the maker’s plan,
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go to the friends we know.
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds
Miss me, but let me go


Monday, February 10, 2020

Signs of true love


Fundamentally, true love is an unwavering, Undreaming, incomparable and intense feeling of passion and devotion for a person.
It’s a connection that runs deeper than merely physical attraction, and instead comprehends an emotional and spiritual connection.
It’s feeling something so strongly for a person that life without them is practically unimaginable.
Certainly, you can't tell if what you’re experiencing is true love or just a feeling of
Lust or fascination with someone?  There are eight signs of true love.
1. You care your love unconditionally.
Through good times and bad, you and your love always come out on top, you trust each other and would do anything to make one another feel loved. When you find true love there are no conditions or strings attached you love him from his core, because you know that the he is something special for you.
2. You love him for who is he.
When you find true love, you have no tolerance to change that person you’re proud of who he is as a person and you never worry about introducing him to your friends or loved ones - in fact, you enjoy doing so because you realize what a prize you’ve found. You don’t compare him to others or wish he was more like so-and-so, you love him for who he is, quirks and all!
3. You’re not frightened to truly be you.
They say that true love will bring your walls down… not literally, obviously, but emotionally, mentally and even spiritually. This means that when you find true love you’ll be willing to share yourself fully and completely with your man.
You won’t worry about trying to impress or win him over, and you won’t have to think before you speak or act, of course this doesn’t mean you should just say whatever you want whenever you want, but rather that you’ll be able to simply be yourself without over-thinking your every word and move. Best of all, once you let him into your world you’ll have someone to share all your funny little thoughts and ideas with, your dreams and goals.
4. You stick to your word.
Not only do you mean what you say and prove you mean practically, but when you make a promise to your love to stick to your word.
Even if you know that he’ll never find out the truth, the idea of lying to him or betraying your love is ridiculous to you. Because your moral conscious is strong when it comes to him, to the point where the idea of letting him down means letting yourself down too, when you feel this way, well that’s true love.
5. You respect one another entirely.
When you find true love you’ll have a relationship where you respect each other the utmost.
Now, this doesn’t mean that you’ll agree on every single thing, but rather that when you don’t see eye to eye, you’ll do so in a mature and gracious manner. You care about each other too much to do that, instead, you’ll learn how to argue in a way that is constructive and kind, after all, you will never want to be the reason your lover is distressed.
6. Your gladness feeds off one another.
This doesn’t mean that you depend on each other to be happy, but rather that seeing your loved one makes you happy too, be careful with this one, so many people confuse the two, being able to embrace your loved one’s happiness and make it your own is a very special sign that you’ve found true love. Because it means that their happiness and well-being is just as important to you as your own.
So if you’re feeding off one another’s happiness then that’s a sure sign you’ve found something amazing.
7. You’re willing to make sacrifices for each other.
Now, this doesn’t mean that you should trade in all your dreams for his, but rather if you’re willing to make small sacrifices for one another, then that’s true love.
Maybe this means buying a something special gifts because your love like it, or perhaps it means hanging out with his friend who you don’t particularly like... but you do so because you know it’s important to your lover.
It’s these little sacrifices that make a difference when it comes to love and relationships.
If you’re willing to do things for one another that you wouldn’t normally do, that’s a sign that you’ve found true love.
8. You’re a dream team.
·         You know you can depend on each other to be the person who cheers you up, loves you unconditionally and is your best friend.
·         You trust one another completely and can say absolutely anything about him, knowing that it’s free of judgment.
·         You’re patient and kind, loving and forgiving.

When you find true love you’ll not only think for yourself, but for your partner too, your future plans will involve one another and you’ll consider each other’s wants and needs as well as your own.
That’s what true love is all about, so once you find it, hold onto it and embrace it, it’s rarer than most of us tend to realize.
Well there you have it, eight signs of true love.


Tuesday, February 4, 2020

what love is ?


Do you know what love is?


When you fall in love with someone and they take you out of their life, and you accept to him in spite of the agony of your heart, When he ignores you without fault, and you are patient with him, And your thoughts are still not against him, When you try to say something against every such thing, your tongue stops And if you want to write something against him, your hands will be unable to do it. And when anyone says something against it, you are offended and you fight him, never let anyone interfere with the sanctity of your love, and I Love too….  What happened if disloyal does not take love responsibilities? I can't leave my love because there are some necessities of love, and Love demands sacrifice Of the Spirit ever lived and ever wished….

Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Effects of Love on our life



 Effects of Love on our life.

1.    When your attitude is not well without any reason, you are definitely missing someone.
2.  If someone connected with you after you offended them more than once, they love you because they're choosing pain over pleasure.
3.  When two people in love look into each other’s eyes for three minutes, their heart-rates synchronous each other.
4.  Love is when attraction and lust is gone. It is based on how long-term decision but these cannot happen sensibly if you haven’t experienced the person in full.
5.  The person who doesn’t see love as a mythical, will succeed far more in relationship than someone who understands love as a fairy story.
6.  You cannot have love without trust because no relationship flourishes with it and that means you have to be helpless.
7.   Falling in love at first sight is superficially true according to psychologists and it takes only two to four minutes to fall for someone.
8.  Be careful who you look at, because you may fall for a stranger if you keep gazing at them.
9.  The fourth finger of the left hand is called, the ‘vein of love’, which is connected directly to the heart.
10.    Couples with too much resemblance or too many differences tend not to last very long.
11.       The fact of life, women find guys extra attractive if they notice other females smiling at them.
12.     Being intensely loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you daring.
13.     If someone is ready to be in a relationship, they are more likely to seek out love, than those who afraid away from it.
14.     If you feel tired, stressed or are having a headache, griping or hugging can be the best substitute to painkillers.
15.     Sometimes, People have to cry out all their tears to make room for a heart full of smiles.
16.     Couples who are truly in love can reduce each other’s pain or other feelings of stress and fear just by holding hands.
17.      Being in love is identical to being addicted to cocaine because it produces equal chemical euphoria and has nearly similar effects on a person’s mind.
18.     Sometimes, your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows.
19.     If you love someone, express your love to them before it dies.
20.   If someone love you he should die in your love before you die.


Wednesday, December 25, 2019

Psychological & Social Effects in love


1.      Giving a woman's independence in a love is a sureness of your love. The more independence you give her, the more she feels drawn to you.

2.      Surprising a woman with gifts like a necklace, jewelry which triggers the same feelings of love like just before the first meeting.

3.      The body language of your woman shows you that how she loves you when another interest in you.

4.       You can easily renew and bonding your relationship by frequently spending time together at a camping site, a trip, adventure, or going on a picnic.

5.       A woman can easily make her lover remain faithful by surprise gifts like a watch, a shirt, and a pair of shoes, or a new shirt.

6.      You will never please a woman if you aren’t stimulating her mind and making her feel the love experience. Speaking words of inspiration like “I love you” and making a woman feel loved, beautiful, and appreciated means a great deal to her.


7.      Looking into your woman’s eyes and holding eye contact increasing love and foreplay can make her feel far more turned on and excited.

8.       The first impression and eye contact are by far some of the most effective ways of attracting someone the first time. Most people fall in love through eye contact during the first 30 seconds.

9.     Men are psychologically turned on by women who wear red. The color red is strongly linked to desire and attraction. For example, there is evidence that women reported wearing red clothes more often during the fertile phases of their menstrual cycle.

10.    You gradually fall in love with someone you spend a lot of time with, like a fellow student or a co-worker. This is a phenomenon known as the expose effects. Exposure effects is a psychological phenomenon by which people tend to be attracted to each other the more time they spend together.

11.    People are more likely to be attracted to those who are just as attractive as they are. This is known as the Matching Hypothesis. Studies show that if you are attractive, you might want to be with the most beautiful person in the neighborhood, at work or at school.

12.     Changing the curtains of the room where you frequently make love has the same psychological effect as making love in a different room.

13.     Testosterone is a powerful male hormone that attracts women by the odor it produces. Wearing a cologne that simulates the odor of testosterone can make your woman strongly fall in love with you.

14. The link between humor and intelligence has for a long time fascinated psychologists. Women are emotionally, psychologically drawn to funny and humorous man. Women love to be happy, therefore, a man who makes them laugh draws them like a magnet.

15. Taking someone on a first date that gets their heart pumping like a roller coaster ride, fast car, motorcycle ride or a movie thriller spikes their adrenaline, tricking them into believing they enjoyed spending time with you more than with any other person.

16.         When two people embrace or hug each other for a while, the brain releases Oxycontin hormones that help relieve migraine headaches and calms the nerves for up to at least 4 hours.

17.     Humorous man is the successful man in love because the woman loves humor a lot and a funny moments can make life happily