My Love and Lovers
There are a lot of situations in our lives that we cannot live without one person, the love of our lives, for example when you’re having a hard time being single or in a relationship, or perhaps you want to be with someone else but you aren’t sure how to start with or what kind of person they are. This can lead us into making excuses like “I don’t have time to think about it” or maybe there isn’t anywhere to go, or I just don’t think he/she is right for me or it would suck to see them together and not want them to be together. I’ve also had times where I wish these people were dead or had never been born in my life. Maybe you’re lucky to find the love of your dreams, but sometimes finding yourself in such situations may turn you from loving being with anyone close by to wanting nothing to do with someone because if that’s the case then it’ll be harder to see his/her every move, even if that’s the case than most men like that they have a chance to let their emotions run free and play in other peoples’ minds. That’s why I say be careful when dating, because if you find that it isn't happy for it, then you might be hurting the person who loves you back. It's important to know what to expect, to make sure that the date does not go well, and also give them a little warning because you should just wait until after the first few minutes are gone. You should always respect the feelings of a person because it helps you find out if they're worth it from then on.
So, no matter what you decide about dating, it won't always end well, but at least know what to expect and give them plenty of things to talk about. Also, remember that some people aren't happy with themselves and need some self-love instead.
If you're looking for love in this article please do let me know, there are plenty of people out there whose problems are very similar to mine and also some others who need a bit more love and attention.
I know it can sometimes get tough to find love this way at least sometimes for some people but if you like what you see then you have to take a chance and accept a relationship to tell the good news. No one is perfect, so we all still have flaws as human beings. Some of us just need someone to come and fix everything and that's because we have a problem. We can try to control what happens in our lives but we can't control how people respond to our situations. I know it's always hard to change a negative habit, especially at the beginning of a new period of your life or relationship. But that doesn't mean anything else. Just give him/her a smile when you see him/her and be ready to support each other. We need to show people that our problems are temporary and will go away when someone comes along.
You shouldn't force their hand into what they want out of you but I know from experience that you are going to love whatever you get from them. Even if it's a simple "I see you on Sundays", no matter how long it takes you have to believe in him/her to know that they aren't going to hurt you. So keep an open mind and remember that there is always someone out there waiting for you. Especially on those nights you've been left out of someone else's plans and have no place to hang out but your heart starts beating again, you want to feel the connection more than usual, when he/she walks in the door it feels like a whole new world and you can relax and enjoy being by his/her side all night long. Make sure your eyes are open because you're bound to fall deeper and deeper into his/her arms to give them your undivided attention as soon as you open your heart and let go. The same applies to your mind. Be yourself and let yourself feel everything as though you would be there. Don't force anything, just know what you want out of the situation with all the love and communication you will give.
Don't waste time with someone who doesn't care at all about you just because he/she makes the girl next to you more depressed. If he/she likes you he/she will always show that and that can only be true if you find someone else. Just tell yourself when he/she shows signs of wanting something he/she wants to talk about it, talk about it, and make sure you both are on the same page about what you like, and don't be afraid to ask for more love. We all have many flaws and flaws are often hidden in a person, so be careful when choosing someone to go on dates with. Sometimes we have to meet certain criteria or look a certain way, but we cannot lie to ourselves or expect a person to lie to us the only way. Only by being truthful with ourselves can we possibly know what we want and whether or not it's a match for that person or not. In the end, we are all humans after all and everyone has a flaw just like everyone else and it is up to us to decide what we want from our partners in a relationship.
My boyfriend and I dated for almost three years now and this is a pretty big deal considering we are in different stages of life. In the beginning, everything seemed interesting until he took too much interest in someone else and didn't know the real person inside of him. His friends told us it was because he felt he wasn't in good enough company. When we tried talking about the fact we weren't compatible with our schedules since we couldn't agree on any plan, his parents thought I was mad; they were worried that he would start doing drugs or drinking alcohol again and that is completely wrong. He is a wonderful guy, so my guess is him feeling insecure and lonely. How many times did he ever feel like he was rejected? He was a great friend but when he started hanging around the wrong companies he became distant and avoided people and that is normal. Now we were getting on the phone every day because we both wanted to stay apart to protect our relationship. Being young, you want to be in love all the time. Then we got together and after that, we started spending more time together than anybody we could have. After we were over there was no going back.
I'd appreciate any help if you're willing to try and allow me to
tell my story if you get caught in such unfortunate circumstances. Maybe you'll
love someone better than this one person you're currently in; maybe you don't.
Either way, just know that there is someone out there who would be perfectly
fine with having sex with you all the time. And after a while, you'll realize
that's what you want too.
