Romance in life
It is true to say that romance, love, and sex,
are not the most important things a person can experience in their lives but it
is also true to say that relationship is an emotion of mutual understanding
that takes time to grow. I always believed that romance could be anything.
However, since my college graduation, marriage has become part of me, my
dreams, and my goals. Now I am more than happy about the fact that my mother is
happy now that she married a guy like her husband of 27 years. There is even
romance in the way we have been living together. We both share
responsibilities, we get along very well and have fun doing our activities. So,
yes, romance is a feeling that you feel when two people meet at least once. In
addition, there are many romantic movies, such as The Notebook and An Angel
from Kenya and we can do nothing else but laugh even if we are unhappy.
But what is romance?
Romance in its simplest sense means to
appreciate someone or something and love them. Love is a complex feeling where
you feel completely different emotions towards each other. The emotions related
to this feeling include happiness, sadness, hate, joy, fear, confusion, anger,
and so on. Romantic love is an emotional state where two persons have strong
mutual feelings for any person and want to know a person who can satisfy all
their needs and show unconditional love to them. Therefore, romantic love
involves having deep feelings and long-term commitments. Sometimes, romantic
love is difficult to define because it tends to vary among individuals and
change depending on time and place. Romantic love is sometimes referred to as
“passion” when you feel deeply with someone for reasons unrelated to a
particular subject. This feeling can cause a big disruption in a person’s life.
For example, when a man comes home after work, he may suddenly start loving his
wife because there are no words to describe how much he loves her and wants to
make her happy even if it has no chance of being successful. At times, the same
feeling may occur between parents and young children. Young children who love
their parents very much tend to cry when they see him/crying. When couples
share feelings and deep commitments, they eventually form families. Parents and
children may share some common characteristics such as personality, attitudes,
interests, interests, values, beliefs, etc.
Romantic love is extremely hard to achieve
especially during relationships between adults. One reason may be the lack of
understanding of how one person perceives another person. Another reason might
be shyness and uncertainty regarding whether one party or another party will be
willing to spend time explaining or apologizing to achieve mutual intimacy.
Other factors may be shyness and uncertainty regarding trust. Due to the above
causes, finding romantic love becomes harder. Also, if someone fails to
understand your point of view, love will likely fade away. Furthermore, if
someone doesn’t want to commit and spend time talking about things, things may
take a different meaning. But I’ve never doubted that love exists. As my mom
stated, she is confident about finding romantic love again so surely love is
still there.
Romantic love can also lead to intense jealousy.
That is because you believe that only romantic love can bring out the best in
any relationship and therefore you often doubt if you would find yourself happy
without any romantically involved persons around. Although jealousy rarely
occurs due to the strong commitment and strong relationship, it can happen at
random moments. People may worry that their partner may lose interest or
passion in activities they used to enjoy. You may get jealous of your friends
because you feel like they could be having feelings of the same kind.
Romantic love does not need to be perfect. A
simple “I’ll give you my heart for yours” will do. If your date isn’t perfect
then it won’t be great. Yes, you may find yourself spending a lot more time
doing activities that will help you learn more about him or her, and
eventually, you will get to know about a person, but if they aren’t interested
because they just want to sleep on your bed, you won't find love!
Romantic love has positive effects on
relationships in society. First, romantic love makes people more open to
communication and it helps couples build deeper and stronger trust. Second,
romantic love is said to remove self-doubt for those that are insecure since
people are no longer worried about them. Lastly, romantic love can help people
cope with anxiety and stressful mood swings during difficult times. Romantic
love has several advantages and disadvantages.
First of all, romantic love is very easy to
talk about and share. Secondly, there is a lower tendency to over-analyze romantic
relationships and romantic activities may seem strange to an individual.
Thirdly, romantic love enhances personal growth and learning. Fourth, romantic
love promotes healthy relationships by making sure partners do not feel left
and right. Fifth, romantic love can boost social skills and can improve
communication skills. Moreover, romantic love is the foundation for
interpersonal communication and empathy. Finally, romantic love removes
unnecessary differences in the family as well as friends.
Romantic love is a wonderful feeling that all
people with romantic views should experience. By having romantic love, people
become aware of their romantic ideas and dreams. They try to reach them by
showing a certain level of commitment and love for a romantic partner.
Furthermore, romantic love leads people into deeper and broader thinking
without really asking questions. Besides, romantic love provides greater
insight into others and can help those struggling with depression and anxiety
regain focus and confidence. Thus, romantic love is extremely useful for our
life.