Q 1. What's the difference between "my
love" and "my lover”?
Ans. A lover is someone who you sleep with and makes love to you. Lover
would be your life partner.
A lover can be the love of your life, but very often the connection
is one of lust and passion and the affiliation will eventually fizzle out. You
can have an affair with a lover but never with your
husband or wife. You may even decide to live with your lover, but once married
you will no longer feel comfortable calling your spouse my lover and
instead choose to call them "my wife", "my husband" or even
"my love" as a term of endearment.
Often the word lovers is used when talking about
an extra marital affair between two adulterers. Somehow the expression is more
forgiving and many will option to call themselves that. It is true that the
expression "my lover" has a more exciting, exciting edge to it than
"my love".
To mention my love conjures feelings and feelings of
romanticism, affection, tenderness and love. The words "my love" have
been the source of romantic love songs, poems and poetries since time
immemorial and express a level of obligation which my lover does
not. It tells the outside world that your relationship is one based on trust,
honesty and that you share deep emotional feelings for one another. You do not
necessarily have to have slept with someone before calling them "my
love". On the other hand, a lover is always someone whom you sleep with
and needn't love.
