Fundamentally,
true love is an unwavering, Undreaming, incomparable and intense feeling of
passion and devotion for a person.
It’s
a connection that runs deeper than merely physical attraction, and instead comprehends
an emotional and spiritual connection.
It’s
feeling something so strongly for a person that life without them is
practically unimaginable.
Certainly,
you can't tell if what you’re experiencing is true love or just a feeling of
Lust
or fascination with someone? There are
eight signs of true love.
1. You care your love
unconditionally.
Through
good times and bad, you and your love always come out on top, you trust each
other and would do anything to make one another feel loved. When you find true
love there are no conditions or strings attached you love him from his core, because
you know that the he is something special for you.
2. You love him for who is
he.
When
you find true love, you have no tolerance to change that person you’re proud of
who he is as a person and you never worry about introducing him to your friends
or loved ones - in fact, you enjoy doing so because you realize what a prize
you’ve found. You don’t compare him to others or wish he was more like
so-and-so, you love him for who he is, quirks and all!
3. You’re not frightened
to truly be you.
They
say that true love will bring your walls down… not literally, obviously, but
emotionally, mentally and even spiritually. This means that when you find true
love you’ll be willing to share yourself fully and completely with your man.
You
won’t worry about trying to impress or win him over, and you won’t have to
think before you speak or act, of course this doesn’t mean you should just say
whatever you want whenever you want, but rather that you’ll be able to simply
be yourself without over-thinking your every word and move. Best of all, once
you let him into your world you’ll have someone to share all your funny little
thoughts and ideas with, your dreams and goals.
4. You stick to your word.
Not
only do you mean what you say and prove you mean practically, but when you make
a promise to your love to stick to your word.
Even
if you know that he’ll never find out the truth, the idea of lying to him or
betraying your love is ridiculous to you. Because your moral conscious is
strong when it comes to him, to the point where the idea of letting him down
means letting yourself down too, when you feel this way, well that’s true love.
5. You respect one another
entirely.
When
you find true love you’ll have a relationship where you respect each other the
utmost.
Now,
this doesn’t mean that you’ll agree on every single thing, but rather that when
you don’t see eye to eye, you’ll do so in a mature and gracious manner. You
care about each other too much to do that, instead, you’ll learn how to argue
in a way that is constructive and kind, after all, you will never want to be
the reason your lover is distressed.
6. Your gladness feeds off
one another.
This
doesn’t mean that you depend on each other to be happy, but rather that seeing
your loved one makes you happy too, be careful with this one, so many people
confuse the two, being able to embrace your loved one’s happiness and make it
your own is a very special sign that you’ve found true love. Because it means
that their happiness and well-being is just as important to you as your own.
So
if you’re feeding off one another’s happiness then that’s a sure sign you’ve
found something amazing.
7. You’re willing to make
sacrifices for each other.
Now,
this doesn’t mean that you should trade in all your dreams for his, but rather
if you’re willing to make small sacrifices for one another, then that’s true
love.
Maybe
this means buying a something special gifts because your love like it, or
perhaps it means hanging out with his friend who you don’t particularly like...
but you do so because you know it’s important to your lover.
It’s
these little sacrifices that make a difference when it comes to love and
relationships.
If
you’re willing to do things for one another that you wouldn’t normally do,
that’s a sign that you’ve found true love.
8. You’re a dream team.
·
You know you can depend on each other to
be the person who cheers you up, loves you unconditionally and is your best
friend.
·
You trust one another completely and can
say absolutely anything about him, knowing that it’s free of judgment.
·
You’re patient and kind, loving and
forgiving.
When
you find true love you’ll not only think for yourself, but for your partner
too, your future plans will involve one another and you’ll consider each
other’s wants and needs as well as your own.
That’s
what true love is all about, so once you find it, hold onto it and embrace it,
it’s rarer than most of us tend to realize.
Well
there you have it, eight signs of true love.
